Friday, December 31, 2010

'ten.'eleven.

Although I wanted to cram our year into a nutshell for you, I realized that no matter how I listed or wrote about the main events in our past year, it came off sounding really negative. This year has been filled with trials for us. Without a doubt. However. We've been handed an almost equal amount of blessings, too. That being said, I'm so glad this year is over. Let's give it another shot. Yes, we still have a challenge ahead of us with the hippies in this family. We aren't going to let it get the best of us. So there!

I don't remember if I made a New Year's resolutions last year. So, needless to say, I don't know if I was successful or not. Turns out, I was a little busy this time last year.

So this year, I will share my resolutions. Which I actually take very seriously. For reals. If you want to improve yourself- you have to put a little effort into it. Last year was an exception for me. Sorry about that, self.

1. Focus more on me and Z. I've given myself breaks when I know I need them. To be at my best. It's amazing how the fun things easily take a backseat to the less than fun things. And we've had a lot to deal with and we've been negligent with our date nights. Time to give that back to us.

2. Focus a little more on all of the kids. It's so easy to pour my attention into the one kid that needs me the most. (or so I think) But it's not good to leave the others behind. And it messes with the family dynamics, anyway. The ones that aren't getting attention start to beg for it. In less than fun ways. Yes, that means less "In a minute" 's for me. Yikes. That's a tall order.

3. As always, keep up with the Dave Ramseyfying of my life. And exercising- this past year was a slacker year for me. On both of these. Whoops.

How about you?

4 comments:

Jan said...

The new year has kinda snuck up on me. Though if I make a resolution it will be health related- eat less/better and exercise. And make more art.
BTW: I realized you've had your trials this year, but it hasn't come across so bad on your blog. I mean, I haven't quit reading because you sound negative all the time. Just so you know. : )

ethiopifinn said...

i will work on less "just a second"s! good one.

and think about the rest.

happy new year! I am so glad it's here too. Hey, I wonder if that is how Sharyn feels about Mondays...fresh slate.

Tara said...

I actually have very similar resolutions, so no need to restate. Let's see if we can pull it off!!

Anonymous said...

I like the list. I have read numerous places, when you share your goals, you are more likely to accomplish them.

My resolution would be to focus on my house. Updates:)

Kristy